Decluttering, for many, is not just about physical space but about finding emotional peace, mental clarity, and a fresh start. Over the past 6.5 years, I've immersed myself in the world of decluttering, specialising in hoarding. The journey has been transformative, filled with profound lessons and enlightening moments. Let’s embark on this reflective journey together.

1. Understanding Hoarding: A Deep Dive

Many perceive hoarding as merely an accumulation of items. However, it's a complex emotional and psychological condition. I've encountered clients for whom items acted as emotional shields, protecting them from past traumas or losses.

In one instance, a woman held onto every single newspaper since her husband's passing, as they used to read them together every morning. The newspapers weren't just papers; they were memories.

Decluttering, especially in hoarding scenarios, often requires a delicate balance between emotional sensitivity and practical action. Every item can have a story, and it's vital to listen. Being a good listener and empathetic is key.

2. Emotional Connections: Beyond Material Value

Objects, however insignificant they might seem, can carry enormous emotional weight. I've seen trinkets that hold memories, clothes that remind individuals of their younger days, and books that have comforted during tough times.

A gentleman once showed me a worn-out watch. It wasn't functional, nor was it expensive. But it was his father’s and letting go meant parting with a piece of his legacy.

The emotional value of items can often outweigh their material or practical worth. Approach each item with empathy and understanding.

3. Each Home Tells a Unique Story

Over the last 6 years, I've understood that no two homes or individuals are identical. Each decluttering project presents unique challenges, motivations, and outcomes.

One of my clients wanted to declutter before the birth of her first child. For her, decluttering was not just about space but about creating a nurturing environment for her new-born.

Focussing on the objective motivates the client and can keep them on track. It is important to clarify the goal at the start.

4. The Pillar of Trust

Entering someone's home, especially in a hoarding scenario, requires immense trust. Over the years, I've learned that ensuring psychological safety is as essential as the decluttering process itself.

Clients confess their fears about being judged about their cluttered homes. By assuring them of a non-judgmental approach, we transformed the space collaboratively.

Trust is the foundation. Building and nurturing it can make the decluttering journey more comfortable and more productive.

5. Celebrate Every Step

In the world of decluttering, especially with hoarding, progress can sometimes seem slow. Celebrating small achievements fuels motivation and boosts morale.

A young man, overwhelmed by the clutter in his apartment, felt relieved and motivated when we celebrated clearing just one shelf. That single accomplishment spurred him on.

Every step, no matter how small, brings you closer to a decluttered space. Celebrate them all.

6. Education: The Long-Term Vision

While decluttering offers immediate relief, imparting organisational skills ensures sustained results. Over the years, I've realised the profound impact of education in maintaining decluttered spaces.

Months after a decluttering session, a client proudly shared photos of her organised space, attributing her success to the skills she learned during our time together.

Decluttering is just the beginning. Equip individuals with the tools and knowledge to maintain the organisation of their spaces.

7. Decluttering: An Evolving Journey

Spaces evolve, need change, and new items enter our lives. Decluttering is a continual process, and revisiting spaces ensures they remain functional and peaceful.

A couple I assisted annually made decluttering a ritual. This approach ensured their home always reflected their current needs and aesthetics.

Encourage a routine decluttering practice. This proactive approach helps tackle clutter before it becomes overwhelming.

8. A Shared Endeavor

Some of the most successful decluttering projects were those where clients actively participated, voiced their concerns, and made decisions.

Working with a family to declutter their home, each member became a crucial decision-maker. This collaborative approach filled the home with collective memories and decisions.

: Decluttering isn't a one-person job. Engage everyone if possible, value their perspectives, and co-create organised spaces.

9. Inclusivity in Action

Inclusivity isn't just about recognising diverse needs but actively adapting strategies to honour them. From working with elderly clients to those with specific disabilities, I've learned the importance of flexible approaches.

Adapting strategies for a visually impaired client taught me the profound significance of tactile and spatial organisation, highlighting the diverse ways people interact with their environments.

Every individual experiences their space differently. Tailor strategies that honour these unique interactions.

10. The Heart of Decluttering: Passion

Finally, my most profound lesson has been recognising the role of passion. The joy in a client’s eyes post-decluttering, their stories, their transformations, have fuelled my journey.

A senior citizen once shared how decluttering her space made her feel "lighter" and more "alive." Moments like these are a testament to the transformative power of decluttering.

Passion is infectious. When you truly love what you do, it reflects in the impact you create.

To wrap up, 6.5 years in this industry has been a journey of growth, learning, and profound connections. Decluttering, especially in hoarding scenarios, is more than just creating space. It's about healing, understanding, and often, rediscovering oneself. As we move ahead, let’s carry these insights with us, continually evolving and transforming spaces, one item at a time.